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What else could there be to talk about?
Filed under: General
It is 10:30 pm. I’ve been working on artwork for upcoming fliers for the Creative Writing program at LIU Brooklyn. I’m not tired yet because the three glasses of wine have not hit me. I’ve been drawing for a few hours because, frankly, my schoolwork has just been killing me. I’m realizing that this, among other methods, is thus far the best therapy for getting through grad school. Writing this, I feel a little too “zen” or “sentimental” or “new age” or even “romantic” in nature – but who cares! This kind of advice might just save you, no matter what your grad school status is.
#1 – Stretch or work out frequently. This should be self-explanatory. Stretching and working out build up your energy and immunity through tough seasons. If you’re finding it hard to gain inspiration, just hold onto those Victoria Secret mags. I’m sure you’ll look at those flat abs and wonder why you’re not counting crunches at this moment. And then you can order nice underwear for when you’re feeling sexier.
#2 – Draw/paint/collage/play or listen to music often – first alone then by yourself. If you do this alone, you’ll be able to calm those demons. If you do this with someone (even if you’re not speaking to one another) you’ll feel that kindred spirit glowing. And if you prefer, listen to music of the past to get your memory going. OR really search for new music so you can get some sort of pep back in your step. New music makes all the difference in moving forward while old music makes you remember your roots.
I think the wine just hit.
#3 – Hold parties with the people in your program. Try not to exclude people. These others are in the same boat and the closer knit your clan is, the easier it is to survive the workload. No, I’m not talking about collaboration or plagiarism. I’m again talking about cultivating relationships with professionals. You never know where these relationships can take you. That girl in your theory class could play a role in offering the ticket to your dream job.
#4 – Pay for a quality massage once in awhile – I know, they can be pricey. But I guarantee you, it is a memorable experience when all you’ve been doing is working. Get massages after tough tests or term papers. Reward yourself. You work, play and PAY hard…you’ve earned this, what I call, the greatest type of down time in the world.
#5 – Start a blog. AND – GO!
So…any other advice? Talk to me…
